Follow whats recommended in your owners manual. The engineers at Honda are pretty smart. I bet you've never had a problem with the oil you use in your car and you didn't have to ask strangers on the internet for advice.
There is one rule which is stated in your owners manual. Don't use Energy Conserving Oil.
Personally, I use Mobile 1 and a Wal-Mart filter. Change my oil every 10,000 miles and have never had an issue.
Opinions are will vary wildly. Pick a brand, change it regularly and you'll have years of good service.